unattainable earrings

For dozens of years I have enjoyed earrings as my main form of jewelry, not counting my wedding ring. But with my hands the way they are–hurts to touch things, shaky, weaker, very numb–it is almost impossible to unhook, put in, take out, and hang up all but the biggest earrings. The ones with safety backs are impossible. So I pretty much don’t wear them anymore.